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From the front porch to the computer room:
We can't return to Mayberry
By June Mank
Our lives have changed dramatically over the past
100 years. Some of the changes have been blessings, and some have not.
Remarkable advances have been made in the medical profession that keep
the population healthy and help us live longer productive lives. We flip
switches that give light to the dark outside and heat to our homes - so
much simpler than carrying in the wood for fires to huddle around. We
no longer have to hunt for our food, or rely on growing our own fresh
vegetables. We are only hours from anywhere we want to go. It boggles
the mind to stop and think just how far civilization has come - or not.
With the advent of the radio, we soon learned about
the world around us. And then, the automobile allowed us to get out of
our safe cocoon and "see the world." We became a very mobile
society. The telephone connected us to others, and television brought
us immediate news with a visual impact. And last, but not least, the computer,
which has revolutionized every facet of life. All of the "advances"
have helped isolate us from each other and a sense of community.
We have moved from the front porch to the computer room,
where our contacts with people are not face to face. Chat rooms, where
we can talk endlessly without any personal commitment or involvement.
Instead of visiting over the porch rail or over the back fence, we converse
with strangers over the Internet. We are too busy for personal contact
and are not involved in the day-to-day events of our neighbors' lives.
We have no time to help a child with his or her homework or fix their
bicycle. We need to know how they are doing and what is important in their
daily schedules.
We DO have a lot of people who volunteer through the
various organizations and are involved in the lives of others: services,
such as Meals on Wheels, which help keep residents in their homes longer;
volunteer drivers to transport those who need medical services; 5 and
10K walks for various charitable causes, and many, many more organized
help activities. But even with all the organizations that ask daily for
volunteers and support, we need to become more involved in our own neighborhood.
Growing up in Champaign as a caring community has been
good. We did have front porches, where we could observe what was happening
in the neighborhood. It was truly a neighborhood that looked after each
other. We did not depend on someone else to do it. We didn't call
the city to pick up a dead bird in the street or take care of another
trivial situation that we could do in a matter of minutes. We didn't
rake the leaves into the catch basin or allow the grass clippings to clog
up the drains. When the lawns were mowed, the curbs and sidewalks were
also swept clean. The neighborhood kid could expect to be reprimanded
by the lady down the block if necessary. We knew when there was a new
baby on the block or a death, which would bring everyone together. A new
resident was welcomed not by the "Welcome Wagon" but by the
people next door.
We are making progress in becoming neighborhoods again.
The city of Champaign in the past 10 years has created the Neighborhood
Services Department, which is helping organize neighborhoods. Those in
the associations are learning to help each other in creative and meaningful
ways. They are attempting to bring people together to find solutions for
their own problems. Didn't we feel safer when we knew the next-door
neighbors, their immediate family and, in many instances, the extended
family? We can have that feeling of security with a commitment to become
involved. We can no longer say, "The city should do something about
that." We must do something about "that" ourselves.
There are those who will say these ideas have been passed
by long ago, and we can't change anything. But what this community
is like at the end of the next century will not only depend on more-advanced
technology, but also on good old-fashioned neighborliness.
We can't return to Mayberry, but we can make an
effort to bring a little Mayberry into our daily lives by assuming more
responsibility for ourselves and each other. This is a good place to live
and it will become even better if we do that.
June Mank has been on the Champaign City Council
for more than 20 years. She represents one of the city's five districts,
but her concern for her home extends far beyond the boundaries of Champaign's
District 3.
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